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Guest Blog: Finding Inspiration
Today I’m over at J.K. Coi’s blog talking about recent inspirations for my books. Please stop over and say hello! I’ll give a copy of Lady Doctor Wyre to one of the commenters.
Spring Break ER Trip
I guess it wouldn’t be spring break without a trip to the ER! If you’ve been reading here long I bet you wouldn’t be surprised to hear that it was Middle Monster requiring medical attention.
Last night after dark, the two youngest monsters were riding their skateboards inside the garage (we’d parked the family van outside to give them room). I guess she decided she needed more of a challenge, so she switched to a bike. She made a turn too sharply and feel forward, hitting her throat on the handle bars.
She came running upstairs gasping like the wind had been knocked out of her. I got her calmed and we put ice on it immediately. She hadn’t broke the skin but there was definitely a rising white welt and tiny scratches on her throat. She could breathe (after the initial panic) and turn her head without pain, but I was still worried because she couldn’t talk normally. Her voice was hoarse and raspy, and it hurt to swallow.
Of course this is all happening about 9:30 pm. That Man and I were getting ready for bed since we were supposed to work today, but I couldn’t stand the thought of going to bed — even though she seemed fine — for fear something would swell up in the middle of the night and she’d die. (A writer’s imagination is not a kind gift to have when your child has been injured.) I called our pediatrician’s office to talk to the on-call nurse and she recommended we go ahead to the ER just to be safe.
So Middle and I headed up to the closest hospital. Unfortunately, every crazy and sick person in town must have decided that was the best time to show up, too, because we waited for THREE HOURS. Kids were puking in buckets all around us. I can only pray we don’t get the flu now! Middle was feeling better but bored to tears and still a little worried.
Finally after 1 AM we saw the doctor — for a grand total of FIVE MINUTES. He came in, felt her throat, and looked inside. Since she doesn’t have her tonsils, he could see way inside without having to scope her or anything. No cartilage damage, just soft tissue bruising. He told her to stick with a liquid diet today but that everything seemed fine. Whew.
It’s strange to be driving home in the middle of the night, but it was a very happy trip. Middle kept looking for a place to get a shake but nothing was open. (By now, she was starving.) We got home and I made her a Weight Watcher’s chocolate smoothie so she could sleep without her tummy grumbling, and then sent a note to my boss at the Evil Day Job that I needed to take today off.
She did have problems sleeping and came in to join me in bed after That Man left around 6 AM for work. We slept a bit longer and then had a lazy morning of watching TV. I was out of soup, so we had a late lunch of hot and soup soup at our favorite Chinese place, and then I took the monsters to the library.
Tonight, she’s feeling back to her normal vivacious self and is outside playing with the neighbor kids. You wouldn’t even know she’d been hurt last night, until she talks. Her voice sounds like she’s been cheering a few hours at a football game!
So I lost a day of work, both EDJ and writing, but it was a very good day anyway.
Pepper’s Progress
When our dog, Pepper, first dislocated his hip, I googled for advice and stories about how often dogs could actually recover from this injury without surgery. The doctor told me that most dogs had a 50-50 chance of recovery without surgery. For Pepper, he gave 60-40 because of his small size and temperment.
I was sick at the thought of another dislocation, because surgery is $$$$. I was afraid we’d have to put him down. *sobs*
Unfortunately, there didn’t seem to be a lot of positive stories, so I felt it was important to share about Pepper’s recovery. The vet said three weeks of confinement, preferably in a crate. Absolutely no stairs (we live in a split-level) and as little activity as possible for three weeks. Because of his small size, they couldn’t even put his injured leg in a sling to keep it tight against his body (his leg just came right out of it).
At first, it seemed impossible. We’ve never crated Pepper and I knew he’d hate it. It’s a testament to how much pain he was in that he didn’t mind it the first few days. He even voluntarily crawled inside to lie on his king-sized pillow, sheet, and blankie.
The first day he was pretty woozie from getting put under. All he did was lie around. He wouldn’t eat or drink, so I was pretty worried about him. The only way I could get his pain and anti-inflamatory meds down him was to wrap them in deli turkey. So I bought him another pack! Taking him out to go potty was a sad affair (he’s a boy – hiking one hind leg was impossible with his other dislocated). He slept all night without a peep, and the next morning guzzled water.
Over the weekend, he still didn’t have much appetite, so I kept feeding him turkey. Keeping him confined was simple — he didn’t want to go or do anything. The first day or two, he walked on his own but his backend swayed a lot, as if he couldn’t stabilize himself. I’m sure it’s because all those ligaments were torn. The only time I allowed him to walk at all was in the yard to potty, and as soon as he was done, I scooped him up and carried him back inside.
On the weekdays, I carried him down to my office and kept him penned there all day with his own water and food bowl. After a few days, he started to eat his own food again and no longer wanted to be in his crate. Princess wanted him in her room (she felt really badly that he’d been hurt), so she kept him in his crate at night in her room. In the second week, he started waking her up at night, wanting out of his crate. I finally told her to just let him sleep out in her room. Her bed is very low so I didn’t have to worry about him jumping up and down too much and he was much happier.
Going into the third week, I can tell he’s much better. He’s gotten away from me a few times and trotted up and down the stairs before I could catch up with him. He’s eating and peeing normally. He walks without pain. He can jump up and put his front paws on the edge of my chair when he wants me to pick him up, with all his weight on his two back legs. Obviously, it’s been much more challenging to keep him from activity. Today, he even showed interest in playing ball with our other highly active dog (if KC had dislocated her hip, it’d be impossible to keep her stationary — she’s a very active, high maintenance dog).
I think his age (10 years old) and temperment played a huge part in his ability to recover so far. He’s definitely a “lap” dog and never more happy than just sleeping on my lap. Thursday will be the end of his confinement. I’ll be so happy not to have to carry him up and down the stairs any longer! He’s only 15 pounds, but I know that’s how I injured my back.
*knocks on wood* Hopefully he’s well on the mend and his hip won’t pop out again! According to my research, he’ll likely have arthritis in his hip, but so far his mobility doesn’t seem to be affected at all.
Another Sig Possibility?
I really like this man even though he doesn’t have period clothing. I think it’s his eyes, and he’s the right age. What do you think?
Help! Romance Trading Cards
For years, I’ve been wanting to create trading cards for the Shanhasson series, but I couldn’t find Gregar. Now I’ve got that sneaky Death Rider nailed down, I’m having a hard time finding Sig. What is it about these assassins that make them so hard to find? (For Gregar, it was his hair and I finally gave up. For Sig, it’s his period Regency clothing!)
I’m going to try again, though, because of Romance Trading Cards. What a cool idea! I don’t plan to go to the big RT/RWA conferences this year, but I’d still like to have them. Maybe I could get some kind soul to take them for me. But I have to find the stock photos first.
That’s where you guys come in. Please help me find Lord Sigmund Regret. He’s a renowned assassin throughout the galaxy for as much as his clothing and manners as his killing ability. He’s not a very young man — late twenties or early thirties. The kicker: he has blond hair. Try and find a romance hero with blond hair. Sigh. It’s hard! Now add period clothing. Or even steampunk clothing. Anything with a cravat or a vintage look will be acceptable. I don’t want a generic man titty photo. I’d prefer vertical, with as much of his gorgeous clothing as possible, but I’m flexible.
The catch: it has to be from a stock photo site where I can buy the picture and download it for my promo use. I have a membership at iStockPhoto and I’ll probably join ShutterStock since I found Lady Wyre from the cover there. I can’t do general internet shots of models, movies, etc. It has to be royalty free or I can’t use it. I’m willing to join any of the major stock sites to get the RIGHT picture.
If you find Sig for me, I’ll give you a $20 gift certificate to the online bookstore of your choice.
Good News Monday
Sorry I was delayed today! It was definitely Monday, with a hefty to-do list for the Evil Day Job that consumed all my attention all day. Monday might be almost over but we can always use good news!
- I did my first formal presentation for the Evil Day Job even though I telecommute from Missouri! No one could see me, but they could hear me and I ran the slide show from my little home office, which required me to use PowerPoint for the first time.
- I’ve lost 18 pounds now!
- Our dog, Pepper, got hurt Thursday night when Princess took him to bed. He landed wrong and dislocated his rear left hip! Ouch! It was a horrible night at the Emergency Vet Clinic, but the GOOD NEWS is that he’s doing better and his hip has stayed in place. (If it doesn’t, he’ll require very expensive surgery.)
- A great review for Lady Doctor Wyre!
- A giveaway to help Ex Libris celebrate its blogversary!
- Celebrated MIL and FIL’s wedding anniversary this weekend – 53 years! The whole family had a great lunch at Red Lobster and then everyone congregated here for coffee.
- Daddy Bob B (Papa, my Dad) came down Sunday and brought Princess her POOP. She’s doing a science project to compare various farm animal poop to Miracle Grow fertilizer. Should be a fun spring!
What’s your good news?
Giveaway at Ex Libris
Stop by Stella’s blog to help her celebrate her blogversary, and enter to win a free copy of Lady Doctor Wyre and a print copy of The Rose of Shanhasson! Plus, read some “where did this idea come from” background on Lady Wyre’s universe.
Cheesy Horror Movies
Come by Here Be Magic and read about a cheesy horror movie that gave me a nugget of inspiration!
Good News Monday
I don’t have a lot of writing news to share but I’m not going to beat myself up about that. When I’m exercising or dieting well, it always takes away some of my brain power for the writing. I guess I’m concentrating too hard on one to be very productive on the other. But I’m hoping that as time goes by, I’ll settle better into the habits and be able to re-energize the writing, because I’ll obviously feel much better! That’s the hope/plan at least.
So for good news today:
- I’ve lost 16 pounds as of this morning!
- That Man got a new job! (I mentioned on Twitter/Facebook that his hours had been cut drastically right before Christmas and he’s been looking ever since.) New hours, etc. will take us some time to get used to. I’ll be on kid-duty in the afternoon, picking up kids from after-school activities, etc. but he’ll be able to take Princess to school in the mornings on his way and will be home for dinner each night.
- I dragged out my lap frame and HDF silks to return to work on Autumn at Hawk Run Hollow. I haven’t stitched since October, and every time I “return” to stitching, I’m amazed at how much I love doing it again. I may not be able to stick with this project for long (because it’s so large and I’d like to FINISH something!) but for now, I’m working on the first square block on the left with the big house. (I outlined the top but didn’t do it all – long story. I’d finished that block before on different linen but ended up hating it, so I started over again and wanted to do new colors!) When I finish that block, I’ll take a picture!
What’s your good news today?